How do you make resolutions at your house? Do you think up one giant goal and go forth? Do you write it down in your journal? Do you list off so many that there is just no way you could ever complete it all? Do you involve your family or is it totally individual?
How do you keep yourself motivated? Do you tell your spouse or child so that you have some accountability to someone?
I'd love to hear your New Year traditions. I'd love to hear how things roll at your house.
This year we decided to try something new and kind of fun. I read in a comment on a blog during the last week or so someone who puts their resolutions onto a BINGO card. I am not sure of any details. They mostly put on their board simple things that they wanted to do as a family that year like build a snowman, or go to the beach, etc. It sounded like a fun idea and I thought I'd try our own version of their BINGO idea.
I thought about doing a card together but my son really wanted to do individual ones, so today we are all thinking about what our 24 squares will contain. They must be measurable. Something we can put a sticker on to say we've completed it or vastly improved. We are going to see who can get BINGO first and then who can get black out first.
Now 24 resolutions could be quite unattainable if made too large so we plan to have our BINGO cards contain a few more difficult and needed resolutions and somethings we'd like to do this year just for fun.
For example, I'd like to dejunk and organize our entire home but that is quite a lofty goal and thus I have turned it into 7 different squares on my BINGO card and mixed in there I'd like to read a parenting book or two, run a 5k this summer after baby arrives, etc.
Among the list that is slowly developing is this very important resolution of a Revamped Family Scripture Study - Yeah, so we have been in need of a change for a while. In the past we have done topical scripture study, gospel art kit scripture studies with direction, and more, but things have become a little laxed. We have been reading (mostly telling) the scriptures every day but for the past little while it has been without much thought or real investment or purpose and that is about to change. Now I don't have all of the kinks worked out but our plan will go something like this:
We are going to READ from the Book of Mormon directly. We will focus on a particular scripture story or block each week. In the January Friend they have THIS weekly reading schedule but I am not sure it will fit what I am looking for. I'd love a schedule that covers the main stories and characters of the Book of Mormon but that does not require a cover to cover read. I'd love to read anywhere from 5-15 verses a day but still keep some continuity in story lines and such. Does anyone have a family plan you've created or something you've seen online that would work?
Unless one of you sends me a perfect schedule I plan to use the Book of Mormon Stories book to guide me in my verse selections for each week. Then we will read from the pages of the actual Book of Mormon, 5-15 verses each day. I will sometimes use pictures for the Gospel Art Kit or Book to give visuals. At the end of each week we will review the story we have just learned from the scriptures by reading the story in the Book of Mormon Stories book.
Now so far this sounds like a typical family scripture study regimen but here is the twist. We are going to be focusing on CHARACTERISTICS of people in the Book of Mormon. I am going to create a poster (yea still have some work to do :) and as we discover worthy characteristics then we will add them to the poster in this fashion:
Nephi was obedient when he built the boat.
And as time goes on our list will expand and be added to. We will also add how we have seen those characteristics in people in our family or people we know, for example the obedient characteristic may grow to look like this:
Nephi was obedient when he built the boat.
Bob was obedient when he cleaned his room.
I am hoping that this will help our little family to see the things we can improve in, how we are like those in the scriptures, and motivate us to be better.
I am excited to try out this year long Book of Mormon reading feast and to put this promise to the test:
President Marion G. Romney said:
'I feel certain that if, in our homes, parents will read from the Book of Mormon prayerfully and regularly, both by themselves and with their children, the spirit of that great book will come to permeate our homes and all who dwell therein. The spirit of reverence will increase; mutual respect and consideration for each other will grow. The spirit of contention will depart. Parents will counsel their children in greater love and wisdom. Children will be more responsive and submissive to the counsel of their parents. Righteousness will increase. Faith, hope, and charity—the pure love of Christ—will abound in our homes and lives, bringing in their wake peace, joy, and happiness' (Ensign, May 1980, p. 67).
"These promises—increased love and harmony in the home, greater respect between parent and child, increased spirituality and righteousness—are not idle promises, but exactly what the Prophet Joseph Smith meant when he said the Book of Mormon will help us draw nearer to God."
We could use that!
So there is a little bit of what is going on at our house, so what's happening out your house this year?